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Lorde

The Selena Toi et Moi Engagement Ring Setting

SKU: 18012HIVS-OVRH

$4,455

Setting only · 14K Rose Gold.

Your center diamond, natural or lab-grown, is chosen next.Your center diamond is already chosen.

An oval and a pear, held in clean bezels, the toi et moi: you and me.

Accent diamonds in clover-shaped mounts trace the shank toward the pair.

Cast to order in the metal you choose above.

Made by hand for her and her alone, to last the rest of your lives.

Setting only, made entirely to order: this toi et moi design holds two center diamonds, and both are chosen next from live inventory in the shapes and sizes you want. Accent diamonds are included, hand-selected and color-matched to your centers. Every element is designed proportionally to your exact diamonds and finger size. Allow 8 to 12 business days from order to shipment.
Made to Order
Drafted around your diamond and your finger, cast in solid gold or platinum, and set, polished and inspected in our Los Angeles atelier.

Delivered insured, signature required. Forty days to return. A lifetime warranty, in writing.

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    The Ring
    Setting Style Prong
    Sub Style
    Metal 14K Rose Gold
    Band Width
    Finish High polish
    The Center Diamond
    Certification IGI Certified
    Color D, the highest grade
    Clarity VVS1
    Cut Ideal
    Accent Diamonds Matched to the center diamond, set when your ring is made
    Made In Los Angeles, USA
    ROSI™ StyleMatch

    Not sure this is the one?

    Send a few photos of her and ROSI finds the ring she would choose.

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    From Our Clients

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    Verified buyer on Trustpilot · 1.5 ct lab diamond solitaire necklace

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    Heather S. October 2026
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    “I never felt rushed or pressured, and I really appreciated being able to review everything and feel completely confident before the earrings went into fabrication… The level of attention and personal service made this feel like a much more special purchase than simply ordering jewelry online.”

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    “Stunning piece of jewelry!!! Would absolutely order from here again.”

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    Common Questions

    About the Lorde Select

    Yes. The Lorde Select is a complete engagement ring. Your center diamond is included: IGI Certified, D color, VVS1 clarity, ideal cut, reviewed by our gemologist before it is set.
    Every ring is made entirely to order in our Los Angeles atelier. Allow 8–12 business days from order to insured shipment.
    Yes. Choose any metal option above and the gallery will reflect that variant.
    Eligible pieces may be returned within 40 days of the date of purchase in unworn, original condition. Engraved or personalized pieces are final sale once production begins. Review our Return and Exchange Policy for full terms, or speak with your gemologist, we will work with you to find the right design.
    Many RockHer designs have a matching band made to sit flush against them. Browse matching wedding bands, or ask your gemologist to show you wedding bands that sit well alongside this ring.